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Ordeal Rituals – Collaring Ceremonies
We’ve had a lot of people ask us lately about collarings and ordeal rituals (both with collarings and in general). Obviously collarings come in all shapes and sizes…..we’ve been talking about them on the podcast recently and during an interview with Kuldrin’s Krypt. Episode 634 – Collaring Ceremonies Episode 418 – Collarings This is where
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Kink & Power Exchange is my Fetish
I was talking to a University class recently about Kink and Polyamory. During the discussion, they taught me something about myself. While they were trying to understand the difference between kink/fetish and what I got out of kink. They simplified it nicely. I’ve known this….but the way they made it simple was great. …..we were
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Jealousy vs. Envy
Recently on the Erotic Awakening Podcast (www.eroticawakening.com), Dan and I talked about jealousy vs. envy. For me, I expressed how jealousy has always been a negative emotion for me. Not only do I want what my partner has, I don’t want them to have it. (partner or meta or whomever) My emotions usually feel out
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How to Follow – Helping a Leader find their seat of power
Believe it or not, not all Leaders come into their relationships full of confidence and know-how. Dan sure didn’t. I was his first submissive. He was my first Dominant. We learned this dance together. He did a great job showing a face of confidence, and taking risks that proved fruitful for our dynamic. But, there
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2 Styles of Power Exchange Relationships
There are many different styles of Power Exchange Relationships. 2 of the styles we talk about in ‘Hearts and Collars’ is Co-op and Military. Various other names can be used for these styles, but these are the ones we are using in the book. These are the 2 styles we see the most… Co-op
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Ordeal Rituals in Power Exchange
In our newest book, “[Hearts and Collars](www.heartsandcollars.com)”, we talk about the importance of ordeal rituals in our power exchange dynamic. We also discussed this during the Book Club of MAsT: San Diego last night. ********************************* For us, these ordeal rituals are a rite a passage. An ‘earning’ of the roles we are about to
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The First Tool – Polyamory
From ‘The Polyamory Toolkit” by Dan Williams and Dawn Williams (2019) TOOL #1 – DEVELOPING YOUR WHY Dan says… I can certainly recall more than once shaking my head and wondering “Why am I even bothering with this poly thing!?” The first time Dawn went on a date with another person
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April Presentations
April Let’s Chat! With our Patrons – Polyamory (Zoom) Sunday April 3, 6pm EDT https://fetlife.com/events/1061086 ONLINE – TES Presents: Power Exchange, Polyamory, and Potential w/Dan and dawn Tuesday April 5, 7pm – 10pm EDT https://fetlife.com/events/1088998 sub/slave/follower Chat (Zoom) What about this dynamic and being a sub/slave/follower empowers you as a person? Tuesday, April
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Self Publishing – Next Power Exchange Book – Turning our Polyam books into audiobooks
Self Publishing – Next Power Exchange Book – Turning our Polyam books into audiobooks Eleven years ago when we had ‘Living M/s’ published…..self-publishing was complicated and not common. We had thought of self-publishing, but a publisher reached out to us when they heard Dr. Bob was writing the forward. So, yay!!! our first book
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A Weekend at Kinky Kollege
A weekend at Kinky Kollege Oh my! What a much needed weekend!! Much much much needed! Exactly 2 years ago since our last event! And even that one didn’t have naked people. So, it’s been longer than 2 years. As an introvert, and covid paranoid….I thought I’d spend most of my time in my hotel
